"To keep silent when it is one's duty to speak," a moralist remarked, "is as great a fault as to speak when one should be silent."
I can fail in my duty by speaking when God wishes me to be silent, or by failing against obedience, charity or humility when I am permitted to speak. But I am more concerned now with, the faults I commit by not speaking.
Perhaps, through a motive of vanity, I keep still in recreation, when true simplicity demands that I speak a little and take a more amiable part in the common relaxation.
Perhaps, to avoid compromising myself, I prefer to remain in my corner, when it would be better to consult competent authorities.
Perhaps, through negligence or laziness, I neglect to inform those who have a right to know, of serious violations of rule of which I alone may have knowledge. Surely great prudence is needed here.
There are some who imagine they have certain confidences to address to their superiors, but who would do better to keep their criticisms and insinuations to themselves; if I must intervene it should only be after prayer and reflection.
Superiors have something else to do besides listening to gossip without foundation or proof, or to tales of all kinds concocted by too fertile imaginations.
I must try to know how to speak and to dare to speak, but only when it is necessary.
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Adapted from Meditations for Religious
by Father Raoul Plus, S.J. (© 1939, Frederick Pustet Co.)
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